“Train Me, Sir”
Training in Kink/BDSM … or are you looking for a Coach?
Business may not mix with pleasure, but you deserve to know yourself and learn how to balance what you need with how you live. I’ll train you to find your place and balance your life in kink to find health and happiness. If you are looking for deeper self-understanding and putting a plan of action for the bigger picture of your life, consider my professional coaching, a talk-only approach to setting goals and transforming yourself your own way, yet with a non-judgemental and kinky BDSM/queer view of life to fit all the pieces together.
The role of the trainer and the role of the coach are special and not intended to fulfill romantic desires, or the urge to find a life-long Master, mate, or partner. If that’s out there for you to find, I’ll give you the techniques to clarify the mysteries of what makes your BDSM/kinky heart go wild. In fact, you can bring your partner into any session, or together learn better ways of finding intimate communication with words and actions that will draw you closer together.
All activity (starting with every conversation) is negotiated and will be consensual. All information gathered to ensure safety and health is maintained is private and confidential. No activity will take place under duress, coercion, or guarantee of specific results.
I welcome LGBTQIA+ people of all types to my studio for training and coaching.
THE HALF-HOUR ONLINE CONSULT: (FREE): Meet with me online to ask your questions, and to let me know your goals and desires. I will also ask about your health, your experience, your blockers and your constraints. We will discuss fees and responsibilities, and you can ask me anything to guide you in your decision to commit to training.
COVID UPDATE REGARDING FEES:
THE PANDEMIC HAS AFFECTED ALL OF US ECONOMICALLY; WITH THAT IN MIND I AM OPEN TO NEGOTIATION OF RATES FOR CONTRACTUAL COMMITMENTS OF 3 or MORE PREPAID SESSIONS.
I HAVE ADJUSTED RATES FOR SINGLE SESSIONS THROUGH 2022.
In-person consultation over coffee: Meet me for one hour in a public setting for a private conversation as an introduction. This is typically done in professional business clothing or comfortable clothing fit for meeting at a coffee shop or a public setting to have a private conversation. I will ask questions regarding your health (including concerns that may affect our interaction), your experience, your interests, and your availability, in order for me to prepare a full training session or a longer training program for you. You may decide right then and there to come under my guiding hands, but you decide if you need “SIR” or “MASTER” or “Obi Wan Kenobi” to guide you and train you and we make an agreement that is based in consent and negotiated terms that form the contract.
Currently all sessions are to be pre-arranged (24 hour notice minimum). I use a private wellness center in Manhattan (NY) as my primary location, but can meet elsewhere if so desired. All facility fees are to be prepaid by the client.
Payment arrangements are all discussed via private conversation and many options available for easy and discreet prepayment.
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