I help LGBTQ+ people improve their mind, spirit and body at kink play or in non-heteronormative relationships. You can live a healthy D/s, poly and non-het conforming lifestyle, while being part of the world at large.
After coming out in my teens in the post-Stonewall (and pre-AIDS era of the early 1970’s) I became a clinical addiction rehabilitation counselor in my late 20s.
As part of the sober Leather community at the start of the AIDS crisis, I also trained in BDSM practices and techniques specifically to find safe and healthy ways to explore and live an alternative lifestyle and to introduce this to clients in recovery and for the larger community.
I added further studies in Tantric practices that can be use to enhance the physical, mental and spiritual aspects of BDSM or kinky activity, as well as non-heteronormative connections and relationships.
Talk to me about connecting to your body and your true self under my professional coaching or training guidance.
Since COVID and the recent Monkeypox outbreaks, as well as political and social unrest has affected the LGBTQ+ communities with unusual harm to us socially and in our interpersonal relationships I am focusing heavily on working with people dealing with trauma, anxiety, depression and PTSD, as well as gender and identity issues.
Traditional non-holistic health care typically separates the body from the mind (thoughts and feelings) and spiritual. Conforming to societal and cultural norms add to compartmentalization and disassociation from what is hidden within. Connection, desire, intimacy and sexual fulfillment, without shame or blocked by trauma, should be natural goals of living fully as one’s true self.
The body hold trauma, the mind get’s stuck in unsatisfying repetitious patterns, and the spirit is trapped by boundaries imposed by the norms and constraints of others.
Through various approaches including coaching, from polyvagal theory and trauma treatment methods and Tantric unification of physical and spiritual self, I will coach and train you to discover and allow your true self to emerge.